Sunday, July 16, 2017

Date Night Ideas: July - September



Now that we've helped to equip you with a barrage of date night ideas for an entire year, you should be well on your way creating and trying out your own ideas. Have fun and don't worry so much about limitations. Don't let life get in the way of your marriage building. Plan to make time for one another no matter what else has to be done (we know first hand there's always something or someone needing you). Our suggestions can be adapted to fit any budget. Today make the commitment to devote more time to your marriage. Time well spent together, an arsenal of spoken prayers and an enormous amount of patience will make your life together as husband and wife so rewarding for you both. Give your marriage your absolute best. Steve and I both have learned marriage works, if your work it! 

37. Write a prayer together. Take turns reading that prayer each night until you learn it. Then write another.
38. Plant a rose bush and watch this gift keep on giving. 
39. Create and play games during a marriage-themed game night
40. Spend some time at the beach.
41. Have a picnic in a park.
42. Recreate your first date together. 
43. Stay at a Bed and Breakfast one night. 
44. Attend a marriage retreat together.
45. Attend an auction together. 
46. Make homemade ice cream or your favorite dessert together.
47. Go for a walk around the neighborhood. Hold hands.
48. Visit a bookstore and purchase the Love Dare and follow!

All the best!
~Steve and Del


Sunday, May 28, 2017

Memorial Day 2017: My Personal Reflection

“Freedom is never free.” These words were engrained into my five-year-old mind by my dad. Most conversations that we have now, will always turn toward talks about the state of our nation, service, and his views on how these “21st century kids” need to step up for their fellow man and country. A former soldier in the United States Army, my dad, often shares military tales with me and answers my many questions, most of which begin with the word why. I grew up with a great respect for our military and the sacrifices that all branches of our armed forces make and the sacrifices of their family members. I had many in my family to serve our great country in various military branches. My love and respect for each of them led me to read more about the wars of our nation, and led me to one of my greatest life lessons, outside of a formal school setting. Learning about the cost of our freedom and the meaning of Memorial Day is a lesson I look forward to sharing with our grandkids as they grow.

Photo taken on May 11, 2017 as students of W. E. Striplin Elementary School
 visit the Vietnam Memorial Moving Wall on tour in Gadsden, Alabama.

While many celebrate the Memorial Holiday weekend with family, friends, cookouts, a weekend getaway or fireworks, please take the time to remember the lives were lost so that we are able to make such choices. Please remember the following about Decoration Day now known as Memorial Day:
·      Do not thank a current or former soldier for their service.
·      It is not a celebration of those who currently serve.
·      Do not say Happy Memorial Day. The day is void of happiness for so many families and troops who lost loved ones in battle.
·      Do pause and reflect with your family and friends to remember those who gave up their life for our country and for us.

·      Do proudly display the American flag.

Here is a Memorial Day Video

Date Night Ideas: April - June


















We sincerely hope that you are enjoying our date night suggestions. Making your marriage a priority is what God desires for each of us. Marriage is a beautiful union that requires work on our part.


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25. Comedy Club
26. Backyard camping
27. Spa date
28. Do a home-themed project at your home or apartment together. 
29. Rail to bicycle trail ride
30. Seafood boil at home
31. Read the book of Proverbs together and discuss.
32. Play charades.
33. Have a classic movie night at home.
34. Fly kites. 
35. Camping with kids
36. Take kids to one of your favorite restaurants.


Friday, January 20, 2017

Inauguration Day 2017




Today is such a historic moment in our democracy. Witnessing the transition in power from outgoing President Barack Obama to President-elect Donald Trump is so majestic.  On this day in our nation’s history, it has always been a respectful transition from one president to another. No matter a person’s political party choice, what happens before noon today helps in making us stand out as a great country.  It shows a united front on the world’s stage.  Eight Supreme Court Justices, members of the House of Representatives and Members of the United States Senate, along with Ambassadors, the 39th, 42nd, and 43rd United States Presidents and First Ladies, as well as official staff members, and citizens from all over these United States will convene to witness this change in power, which is a breathtaking moment. I am so proud to be an American and to live in this great country. Our country has the distinct privilege of electing its leaders. We know that we have a voice and we are allowed to make choices. That is the core of democracy. We are THE greatest country and to be able to see this change in power every four years is inspirational.  “True democracy requires work by each of us every day,” as President Obama so eloquently stated.  Today is a day of renewed hope for our country. Hope that every American will continue to enjoy the freedom, voice, privileges and rights that our country proudly boasts. It is a day of hope that America will remain great. We are already great and we are already the best nation on planet Earth so let's pull together for the good of our country and go forth helping our fellow man. 

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Date Night Ideas: January - March

Hello,
I hope you begin reading these date night posts and are finding some ideas that fit your budget. I also hope that you find some ideas that to add another bright spark to your marital fire! Just as I've stated in a previous post, date nights are meant to be fun and to help couples keep maintain that spark that drew them together in the beginning. The date nights we suggest in this post are not centered around the weekends only, and they may certainly occur in the order of your choice. Have fun trying some of our suggestions and don't forget to try some of your own ideas. Have a fun and engaging time living your vows everyday! 



13. Fireworks show: create your own or attend a show
14. Photo booth fun!  Strike silly poses. 
15. Design, print and hang a family crest together. Discuss what is important to include and why.
16. Paint your own pottery session. 
17. Go kart racing indoor or outdoor
18. Ballroom dancing lessons
19. Create and view a slide show of pictures from your life together.
20. Murder Mystery Dinner Show
21. Weekend at a cabin. 
22. View an exhibit at a local museum
23. Happy hour at a local restaurant
24. Date night at home 

Best wishes!


Saturday, December 10, 2016

Sugar and Spice



This year, I've been in a crafty, make-it-at home myself mood. This is in part largely due to the incredibly fun and engaging DENaissance Maker Fair held during the Discovery Educator Network Summer Institute (#DENSI2015) in Washington, DC in July 2015. 

Every since then, I have been trying my own hand at making some of the crafts I learned there, or I have explored and created on my own. It is so fun and so relaxing! I have always loved crafts and being a wife and mom who works, I join in with the song, "I don't have time." Oh, but I do have time. I had to make my time a priority. Yes, imagine that in a home with kids and a husband, but it is possible. So roll up your sleeves, find your maker station area somewhere in your home, and make away. 

This year, I delved into body scrubs for my faculty and staff. I visited a local health food store and purchased essential oils. I had read about essential oils and I was familiar with frankincese and myrrh. Both are middle eastern scents that the wise men carried when baby Jesus was born in a manger. Inspired by the entire Christmas story, I set out to create body scrubs with heavenly scents. In the course of my making body scrubs, I stirred up cinnamon, mint, lavender, lemon, vanilla, tangerine, and the middle eastern scents. How lavishing! I used all natural ingredients such as raw sugar, fresh cinnamon, grapeseed oil or fine olive oil. I loved how the oils and raw sugar would mix and create this incredibly soft texture. It is not sticky and when the essential oils are added, the entire product comes alive. I used four ounce jars found and I filled each jar with 4 teaspoons of a particular scrub. I included labels on each jar thanks to (ideaaroom.net) and my scrapbooking supplies. Some were bagged and tied to give and some were given with a card and no bag. Several teachers told me how lovely the scrubs smell. I smiled with delight, knowing that I had created something special for each one of them with my very own hands.  With each teacher gift, I included directions inside of each card on how to use the body scrub. The directions read: 
Rub a fingerful over your hands, face, body or feet.
Wash away with warm water to 
Enjoy this body sweet treat!

Find your craft to try today. Don't delay your fun any longer! 
Merry Christmas and best wishes for a very great holiday season!

Wednesday, December 7, 2016

Date Night Ideas: October - December

Now that I have remarried, my hubby and I set aside time for one another just as we did when we dated. The dates are not scheduled and they do not always wait on the weekend. That's what makes the moments spontaneous. Sometimes I'm in pajamas during the week and he comes home and says let's go to dinner or let's go for a drive. My response: I sprint to our bedroom, I change clothes and join my husband.  I don't make excuses. I don't deny him wanting to shower me with his attentiveness, and I don't dare deny any spontaneity in our marriage. Now that's not to say, I'm always perky. I'm human. I work beyond regular hours, I tend our home, I cook, and our kids exhaust me. But our marriage deserves our best foot forward. I can do my part by showing my husband that I appreciate the blessing that he is.  


We have had a date each week since August 8, 2013.  On each date night we do something together that we feel adds sparks to our flame. Sometimes we make it a family date but that usually occurs about four times per year and those are never planned. Our kids are older now and at 22, 18 and 15 years old, we just don't excite them as much anymore LOL. They have come to respect that we have couple time and they actually shoo us out of the door. That is one of the greatest beginnings to any date night we have...the love and unity within our blended family. Hubby and I truly believe in living our marriage vows everyday (LOVE).  Cherish your wife and cherish your husband! 

What is it that we do that is worthy of this post? Sometimes it is dinner and a movie. But more often our date nights are so much more. Here are a few of our date night ideas to try during October, November, and December. Mix them up. They're not posted in any order. Please do add to our suggestions with some of your own date night ideas for these months. Remember date nights are about finding ways to entertain one another and keeping alive what made you fall in love with one another. 

1. Navigate a corn maze. Stay close and navigate the maze using both of your skills and instincts.
2. Play Zombie Paintball
3. Attend a professional ballgame.
4. Magic night (a planned date night). Each of you will learn and showcase a magic trick or card trick. The other will video.
5. Drive in movie 
6. Roast marshmallows over the fire pit in the backyard.
7. Attend a college ballgame.
8. Locate and attend open house events.
9. Ice skating. No worries about who can or can't skate. Just try it! 
10. Read a book together and discuss over dinner.
11. Make, bake and decorate cookies according to the season.
12. Go to laser tag arena and play.



All the best with your marriage!